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20. I've loved this guy for the longest time. When I finally thought I had no chance and started to get over him, he told me his true feelings and told me he loves me. I don't want anyone else, but I don't know if I like this guy or not? What do I do?

In my opinion, i think that you should start to hang out with him. But make sure that he doesnt think that you’re into him just yet. Be sure that you like him, like really like him before you tell him, so you dont break his heart. That’s the last thing you’d want to do. & if you’re planning to make him wait for you like what he did to you, Dont even think about it. Most guys have a tendency to just  give up right away, and you’ll miss your chance. & Guys! If you’re reading this, dont give up so easily, give effort into wanting her! Fight for your women! that’s SEXY, & girls love that(;

19. My friend's boyfriend is causing our group to fall apart. My friend tried to break up with her boyfriend twice already but she's too nice to dump him since he started crying?! One person already walked out of our group because of him but now, the majority of us can't take it anymore... What can I do to make our group not fall apart & to make them break-up because my friend also doesn't want to be with him anymore since she caught him cheating on her already? Is breaking up with him the right choice...?

Tell your friend she needs to get her confidence up and tell her boyfriend DONE IS DONE. He already cheated on her, so why bother keeping him. So YES, breaking up with him is the right choice. He’s not worth it at all.

18. I reeeeeally like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. What's worse is that he's a football player, he's tall, and he's pretty much freakin' amazing. I have nothing to offer, but I like him so much. I can't even talk to him, but he sits on the other side ofthe room in my English class. Is this just a pipe dream? Or is there actual hope for me?

You should respect his relationship, and wait. Most middle school and or high school relationships has its ending. It may take a while, it may not. There is always hope for everyone. It’s just the time that’s not great for everyone. 

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17. If a you & a guy get hella close & play around & flirt with each other, what does that tell you? That is currently happening to me. He talks to me all the time, he puts his arms around me, & plays around with me a lot. I like him & the things he does. But I don't think he likes me. It's like, he's that kind of guy who doesn't want to get involved with girls. But he's giving me mixed signals, also. How can I get him to like me, & ask me to be his girlfriend? It's sad that I'm just waiting for him & I'm very close to giving up...

I love how what you guys are going through, we’re either going through the same things or we have already went throught that phase. Haha, so my story is the same thing, except that I’m the one who doesnt want a relastionship. So if he plays around and flirt with you, it can have two meanings. One, he’s just a player. Two, he really truly likes you. If you want to know if he likes you, when you guys are talking, slip in the questions, “SO, who do you like?” Sometimes, they’ll tell you & sometimes they wont. If they dont, then fool around with them for a bit and ask them to give you hints! If it’s you, Congratulations, You’ll probably be his girlfriend sooner than later. If it’s not, don’t sweat, sugga. if he usually doesn’t date, he probably wont be a good boyfriend material either. Hahah, dont give up until you’re sure that he doesnt like you(; there’s always a possibility<3

16.Oh yeah, haha. Forgot to mention that. No, we're not together anymore because he broke up with me. He was feeling guilty since he still thought about his ex. ironic, right? But idunno, he's really sweet though. And, now I'm just confused about what I want: my first, true love who I still have unrequited feelings for...or the guy who loves me despite my flaws?

Dear, I think for now, it’s best to let go of the one you love. “If you love something, let it. If it comes back, then it was always yours, if it doesn’t, it never was.” Let it go for now and see where that leads you. You just have to be strong. I’ve learned that if I pretend something, that soon it’ll happen. It might not be true, but it helped me. Just show that you are happy and have fun! And now for the guy that loves you. Well, first of all, do you have any feelings towards him? If not, then just let him go. If you think that maybe someday you’d feel something towards him,  then give it time. But if you DO have feelings for him right now, also give it time. You wouldn’t want to be going out w/ a guy when you still have strong feelings for your ex. If he really loves you, he’d wait for you to let go of your ex. He should hopefully understand. Just give it time.

15. How can I get this guy to like me, besides being myself. & how can I get over my ex when we had unforgettable memories together? he doesn't even talk to me ever since our breakup when he promised me he'd be there for me through thick&thin. how can i make this happen?

First of all, you should think of what would happen if the guy you like were to like you back. You’d need to get over your ex to be able to have a committed relationship with the guy you like. So, to get over the guy you like, it’s best that you guys don’t talk. I’ve somewhat been through this, but I was able to get over him, by us having no contact. I know it’s unforgettable, but we’re still young, we’ll soon grow up and get over it. And that promise of his could be true, but maybe right now is not the time. Sure he said “Through think and thin”, but anyone can say that and not mean. Been there. It hurts for a while, but just go out, have fun, keep your mind occupied to forget your ex. Now with the next problem. Play it cool. Try to talk to him and flirt with him. Get to know each other and see where that leads you.

14. You make it sound so easy. But I'm afraid my situation is SO much more complicated than that. I'm in love with my ex, who used to love me too, but is now in love with his ex. And the guy that loves me? Yeah, well, we used to date and everything felt right. It seems like we're perfect for each other, but I don't think i have the capability to love him the way he wants me to. And it hurts him so much. Which I can obviously relate to. So, I guess I'm in a love rectangle? Wow, I suck at explaining this.

You have to Think it’s easy, to make it easy. so, the guy that loves you now, is he still with you or not? cause knowing the answer to that question will make it much easier to answer this problem. In my opinion, the easiest way to solve it is too take a break from ALLLL of those people you just mentioned. if you cant, then try not to hang out with them as much. and like i said before, meet new people. it’s the funnest way to forget all your problems. Try it, & get back at us, if it doesnt work, we’ll help you get over them boys(=

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13. My ex left me for another girl, he doesn't even like her. I still kind of like him, and he's acting like he still likes me. Whenever he's with his chick, you can guess who he's looking at the whole time. Me and him are still friends, but not as good of friends as we used to be. Do you think in the future if me and him become good friends again, we should try dating again?

To be honest, I think he’s just trying to make you jealous. And if you still only kinda like him, you’ll get over him eventually. Don’t fall for him again. He’s just trying to use this girl to make you jealous. If he’s using the girl, he could possibly use you later on when he finds someone new. At least now you know he’s not to be trusted.

12. I love him. He doesn't love me. Another guy loves me, but I don't love him. What the hell do I do now?

Damn girl! I went throught the samee thing. Hahah, Okay, so you have to tackle ONE task at a time. First, you have to tell the guy that likes you that you’re sorry, but you’re not interested, in a nice way, you dont want to ruin his confidence. Once that’s over with, you can focuse on meeting new people, go to the mall, meet new boys, go to parties! I’m sure you’ll meet someone who feels the same way as you doo(; That guy that doesnt love you? Pshh, He probably doesnt know what he’s missing out until it’s gone. One thing i know about guys, it’s that once they know that we’re over them, they try to hook us back in. So when that happens, you can say “Sorry, mister! you lost your chance!” Hahaha, im kidding, just be nice about it, you wouldnt want that to happen to you! Who would want to love someone who doesnt love you back, right?(= Dont worry, “there’s other trees in the forest!”

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11. No one understands... I'm a big loner at school, and my best friends are going to a different school which I'll be going next year... But as for this year... 9 more months... I don't think I can survive being alone for 9 more months at school. I've had enough. Help me? D: Tips? Hints...?

Honestly, I’ve been through this just recently. But I eventually got over it. Well, you really just need to make new friends. That’s the key. Meet new people, attend school events, join clubs, participate, and be active! Introduce yourself to others. There are always people at school who are going through the same thing as you. Be friendly and social. You’ll eventually find your way around and get through those 9 months. It’s like kindergarten again, you see brand new faces, and so you introduce yourself and make friends. Don’t be shy, and I wish you luck =) 

10. how do i start talking to this boy i like, i don't have any classes with him and i don't want to look creepy and show up at his locker all the time. I have talked to him for months....

Make subtle moves. If you guys happen to start hanging out, ask him to walk with you to your locker, and try to start a conversation on the way. Ask him about relationships and try to really get to know him, and find ways to stay in contact with him, but don’t make it too obvious you feel a certain way towards him.

9. I really like this guy, we only have art class together and he has no phone. How do I let him now how I feel?

Telling a person you like them doesn’t necessary need to be on the phone. Of course, it’s the easier route, but it’s better in person don’t you think? If you’re not comfortable that way, then try asking if he has an AIM, or if there is any other way you can contact him over the computer. But most people prefer the “in person” way. It shows them that you really care and you have enough courage to tell them.