May 2010
3 posts
25....hello. i'm having a few troubles with one of...
We think it’s not really about what he wants to tell you. It’s more of a reputation or trying to get your attention thing for him. If he’s over it he wouldn’t waste his time. We have nothing else to say.
except “guys are jerks & stupid!” So, it’s best if you let this guy become a part of your history.
24. is this cheating .. your ex's family invites...
Well, right then & there, did you have feelings for him? If it is, it’s called mental cheating. But it’s not really cheating because you guys didn’t really connect romantically or anything. Sometimes, when things gets awkward, & you dont know what to do, you just let it happen. You didn’t do anything with him, so you’re Good. & you should tell your...
23. So I took a day trip up north yesterday. On my...
We’re so sorry for the SUPER late reply, School has been pretty hectic. But if you still want our advice, here it is:
First see if he’s there. If in that 30 minute drive he’s there, then take the change. If he’s not there, then it’s not fate at all. But the gas station isn’t the only place you might meet him. If it’s meant to be, then you’ll meet...
January 2010
3 posts
22. So I like this guy that lives in another town,...
mhmmm, we’re confused. so you turned him down before, and now that you like him, he still likes you? Welll, if your parents let you date, then they shouldn’t have a problem with this guy, since they know his parents and all, then they’ll trust you more. & if they don’t let you date, then keep it a secret, who says parents have to know?(=
21. I'm a former cutter, I advise NEVER to do it....
Awww, don’t cut yourself, It’s not worth it. But this guy, we’re actually glad you’re not with him anymore. Those people shouldn’t be trusted. And most of the time when a relationship ends, the phrase “we can be friends” are usually mention, but that’s not always what happen. It’s hard being friends with someone who’s hurt and confused...
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October 2009
2 posts
20. I've loved this guy for the longest time. When...
In my opinion, i think that you should start to hang out with him. But make sure that he doesnt think that you’re into him just yet. Be sure that you like him, like really like him before you tell him, so you dont break his heart. That’s the last thing you’d want to do. & if you’re planning to make him wait for you like what he did to you, Dont even think about it. Most...
19. My friend's boyfriend is causing our group to...
Tell your friend she needs to get her confidence up and tell her boyfriend DONE IS DONE. He already cheated on her, so why bother keeping him. So YES, breaking up with him is the right choice. He’s not worth it at all.
18. I reeeeeally like this guy, but he has a...
You should respect his relationship, and wait. Most middle school and or high school relationships has its ending. It may take a while, it may not. There is always hope for everyone. It’s just the time that’s not great for everyone.
September 2009
20 posts
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17. If a you & a guy get hella close & play around...
I love how what you guys are going through, we’re either going through the same things or we have already went throught that phase. Haha, so my story is the same thing, except that I’m the one who doesnt want a relastionship. So if he plays around and flirt with you, it can have two meanings. One, he’s just a player. Two, he really truly likes you. If you want to know if he likes...
16.Oh yeah, haha. Forgot to mention that. No,...
Dear, I think for now, it’s best to let go of the one you love. “If you love something, let it. If it comes back, then it was always yours, if it doesn’t, it never was.” Let it go for now and see where that leads you. You just have to be strong. I’ve learned that if I pretend something, that soon it’ll happen. It might not be true, but it helped me. Just show...
15. How can I get this guy to like me, besides...
First of all, you should think of what would happen if the guy you like were to like you back. You’d need to get over your ex to be able to have a committed relationship with the guy you like. So, to get over the guy you like, it’s best that you guys don’t talk. I’ve somewhat been through this, but I was able to get over him, by us having no contact. I know it’s...
14. You make it sound so easy. But I'm afraid my...
You have to Think it’s easy, to make it easy. so, the guy that loves you now, is he still with you or not? cause knowing the answer to that question will make it much easier to answer this problem. In my opinion, the easiest way to solve it is too take a break from ALLLL of those people you just mentioned. if you cant, then try not to hang out with them as much. and like i said before, meet...
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13. My ex left me for another girl, he doesn't...
To be honest, I think he’s just trying to make you jealous. And if you still only kinda like him, you’ll get over him eventually. Don’t fall for him again. He’s just trying to use this girl to make you jealous. If he’s using the girl, he could possibly use you later on when he finds someone new. At least now you know he’s not to be trusted.
12. I love him. He doesn't love me. Another guy...
Damn girl! I went throught the samee thing. Hahah, Okay, so you have to tackle ONE task at a time. First, you have to tell the guy that likes you that you’re sorry, but you’re not interested, in a nice way, you dont want to ruin his confidence. Once that’s over with, you can focuse on meeting new people, go to the mall, meet new boys, go to parties! I’m sure you’ll...
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11. No one understands... I'm a big loner at...
Honestly, I’ve been through this just recently. But I eventually got over it. Well, you really just need to make new friends. That’s the key. Meet new people, attend school events, join clubs, participate, and be active! Introduce yourself to others. There are always people at school who are going through the same thing as you. Be friendly and social. You’ll eventually find your...
10. how do i start talking to this boy i like, i...
Make subtle moves. If you guys happen to start hanging out, ask him to walk with you to your locker, and try to start a conversation on the way. Ask him about relationships and try to really get to know him, and find ways to stay in contact with him, but don’t make it too obvious you feel a certain way towards him.
9. I really like this guy, we only have art class...
Telling a person you like them doesn’t necessary need to be on the phone. Of course, it’s the easier route, but it’s better in person don’t you think? If you’re not comfortable that way, then try asking if he has an AIM, or if there is any other way you can contact him over the computer. But most people prefer the “in person” way. It shows them that you...
8. One of my best guy friends started making...
If he makes you uncomfortable, tell him to stop. You’re probably not the only one, others could feel uncomfortable with his comments too. That’s the only direct way to tell him. He should understand.
7. There's a guy that I fell tremendously in love...
Just talk to him and introduce yourself, it’s the easiest way to break the ice. Find a way to talk to him. An example is: Pretend you need to borrow a pencil to talk to him. Then give it to him at the end of class when you’re on your way to class to start a conversation. Or if you have a friend that talks to him, have them introduce you to him. People do it all the time, so I...
6. My friend does drugs like crazy. I just can't...
The first thing you should is just to talk to him. If the first time doesn’t work, keep talking to him. But if he just won’t listen, tell an adult if he’s underage, their parents or a school counselor are the best people to go to. They’re a great help, but if things are out of your reach and can’t be controlled, let the adults handle it. As much as you don’t...
4. theres this guy....who has a hellu deep...
If you don’t have to lose him as a friend, just let him know that you’re not interested in him like how he is in to you. Try and let him down gently and tell him in person. If that doesn’t work out, maybe it’s for the better you just try to avoid any contact with him. That way, he will be able to tell that you don’t like him and actually get over you.
3. how do i keep a best friend that goes to a...
Keep in touch w/ them and try to make plans w/ them. You can communicate w/ them through however you’d like, and update each other as much as possible. However,don’t get too caught up with keeping your friends that you’d forget about school.
2. any advice on how i should tell a girl i like...
First of all, you should make sure she is interested in you or not. You wouldn’t want to get hurt. But most girls prefer having a guy tell them in person. Try getting them alone to just talk and hang out. Try to keep the conversation going and just tell her in the end.
Or, if you’d like something a little more, play a little game with her. For example, Truth or Dare or 20 Questions....
1. How do I get over a guy I fell hardest for?
Try to avoid him, if you can, but try to make it subtle. Usually, feelings come rushing back when you start speaking to them again. And try to keep your mind occupied by doing something else to get him out of your mind. Hang out with your girls and meet new people.