21. I’m a former cutter, I advise NEVER to do it. I told me ex-boyfriend when we were dating that I was one, I thought I could trust him. Now that were broken up, he uses my past about cutting against me. I just want him to stop telling me to go cut myself out of random. It really hurts me when he tells me these things, even though were broken up. He said after we broke up we would be friends, but I don’t know what to do. :\
Awww, don’t cut yourself, It’s not worth it. But this guy, we’re actually glad you’re not with him anymore. Those people shouldn’t be trusted. And most of the time when a relationship ends, the phrase “we can be friends” are usually mention, but that’s not always what happen. It’s hard being friends with someone who’s hurt and confused after a breakup. Anywho, you should approach him and ask him why he’s going around saying those things. And don’t go around telling people bad things about him, that would just make you as evil as he is. I say, talk to him, find out the reason why he’s doing that and ask him politely to stop, if he won’t, there’s always the door, walk away from it. If you keep ignoring him, he’ll eventually stop. Bullies only pick on you if you react to their bullying. Good Luck!
